That’s Not What I Said: Master Conflict with Conversational Competence

That’s Not What I Said:

We’ve all had that conversation that spiraled out of control.

One misinterpreted word, and suddenly relationships, reputations,

or careers are on the line.

This book introduces the DARE Model — a proven framework for handling conflict without casualties. You’ll learn to:

Describe without interpreting.

Acknowledge differences without minimizing them.

Review the narratives that shape our conversations.

Engage for understanding, not just for the win.

It’s not just theory — it’s the same approach that’s transformed leaders, teams, and companies worldwide.

(with bonus live Q & A with Dethra)